Shaun and I have done it. We have made the symbolic commitment. It may not make much sense to some people, but for travelers, they understand. The big travel commitment.
Shaun and I bought our South America road map and Lonely Planet’s South America on a shoestring.
It is amazing how something as “small” as purchasing a map is almost as good as hopping on the plane tomorrow. Its a symbol. Its your travel commitment. Hell, you’re for the most part asking South America’s hand in marriage and she just said, “I do.” And we’re doing it.
Once we got home from the bookstore, not only did we immediately unfold the map, but I dove head first into reading about Argentina.
Right now the South America map is pinned to the wall in our room – our daily reminder of the trip that is yet to come and the insane amount of planning I’m about to jump into. I know its a bit cliche but I feel like an explorer of the days of old. There is the thought of South America, but when its laid out in front of you it somehow becomes more tangible. The countries exist. Machu Picchu is not just a pretty picture.
We’re Indiana Jones and are about to go on an adventure of a lifetime.
I cannot even tell you how much Shaun and I were into Indiana Jones as children. Being born in the early 80s the concept and culture of Dr. Jones was always around. He was our hero and was always discovering something astronomically fantastic. Shaun read all the Young Indiana Jones books and had an iguana named Indy. I pretended my jump ropes were whips as I screamed out “DUN DUN DUN DUN! DUNDUNDUN!” This is where our hearts learned to be wild, inquisitive, and full of wonder. If he could go to all these places and learn all these things… why couldn’t we?
And while Shaun and I are so terribly excited about our trip, I forget that not everyone is as “into” our backpacking adventure as we are.
One person we know is currently in the military and was a bit bewildered that we even considered going.
“There are bad, bad people down there. I used to do Special Ops missions and you wouldn’t believe how cold-hearted some people are. They have guerrillas and bandits and they WILL kidnap and torture people like you. Don’t make me charter a plane and come rescue you if anything happens.”
Another person made sure that I knew about the people:
“Be careful. The people in South America are very unfriendly.”
And we wonder why so many Americans refuse to travel. When we live in a world of fear mongering, the only place that people think is safe is home. No humanity exists outside the border of the United States and everyone is trying to get you. I would honestly rather live a full, exciting life on the edge than live in a safe, sterile environment for the rest of my life.
If I had to work in a cubicle forever I would surely shrivel up and die.
What do you think is a trip commitment? What do you do that makes it official?
“I would honestly rather live a full, exciting life on the edge than live in a safe, sterile environment for the rest of my life.” Perfect, couldn’t agree more.
As for people saying it’s unsafe, how the hell can you say everyone in South America is dangerous?. I live in one of the least dangerous places in the country and yet someone got killed at a bar I often go to over the weekend, one of the friendliest bars in the city. Where ever you go there are going to be problems but that’s life……
I can relate to the map as well, One side of my bed is a massive world map on the wall and the other side is my bookshelf full of guide books so I’m always rolling around from one side to the other!
Austin, Texas is one of the safest cities in the nation (or used to be) and while I may not lock my doors to my house all the time (my dog is scary enough!), I know that there are kind, awesome people in the rest of the world.
I’m glad to know that my choice of decor can be found in other travelers’ homes! 🙂